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Bonita "Bonny" Kay Haney
December 5, 1953 ~ October 14, 2017 (age 63) 63 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Wes and Kristin Schlauder
February 17, 2021 10:00 AM
Admiral Haney and family, we just learned via the recent Washington Post article of Bonny's passing and though 3 years have passed wanted to express our deep condolences to you and the family at the passing of a great lady. We crossed paths with you and Bonny during your time in Groton while COMSUBGRU Two. My wife in particular had the opportunity to work with Bonny and thought she was a wonderful person and a brilliant lady. We both thought that the two of you brought were a wonderful couple who brought grace and dignity to everything you did.
With our sincerest condolences,
Wes and Kristin Schlauder
With our sincerest condolences,
Wes and Kristin Schlauder
Message from LCDR Herlena Washingron, USN, ret
December 22, 2017 10:59 PM
Praying for you and your family.
Message from John Carcioppolo
December 22, 2017 9:01 PM
Admiral Haney and the Haney Family,
I just saw this. I am so very sorry to hear this.
The times That I met her over the years she impressed me as a beautiful lady. Ship alive and so full of life.
I am very sad to hear this.
Sincere condolences from Dee and I.
R/
John and Dee Carcioppolo
I just saw this. I am so very sorry to hear this.
The times That I met her over the years she impressed me as a beautiful lady. Ship alive and so full of life.
I am very sad to hear this.
Sincere condolences from Dee and I.
R/
John and Dee Carcioppolo
A candle was lit by Lou Reid
on December 22, 2017 11:15 AM
Message from Song Tamura
November 14, 2017 6:42 PM
I will miss my dear friend forever. I believe that she is in heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with the family for comfort during this time of grief. I will always remember our times together, with Bonnie always laughing.
A candle was lit by Song Tamura
on November 14, 2017 6:37 PM
A candle was lit by Ashleigh and Constance Evans
on October 29, 2017 4:27 PM
Message from Diana and Joel Steinbach
October 29, 2017 12:50 PM
What an true blessing Bonny was and will always be to our family. For over 40-years Bonny gave me nothing but unconditional love, she taught me what being a man was. Bonny was always there for us and poured so much love on us. Bonny and Cecil always had their door open to us and we will love and cherish our memories we shared forever. It hurts our hearts that you are gone from this world but know you are at peace. We love you so very much and pray for comfort and peace. God’s continued blessings on your beautiful family. Heaven has gained a true Angel and we know Bonny will have an ever presence in our hearts.
A candle was lit by Jim, Martha, Kathryn, Steven & David Steinbach
on October 27, 2017 9:20 PM
Message from Dave & Nancy Eyler
October 27, 2017 8:15 PM
Cecil,
We were very saddened to learn of the death of Bonny. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dave & Nancy Eyler
We were very saddened to learn of the death of Bonny. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dave & Nancy Eyler
A Heavenly Heights Bouquet was sent on October 27, 2017
Our deepest sympathy Harry and Talulah Thompson
A candle was lit by Maria Elena Bateman & Family
on October 27, 2017 2:31 PM
My heartfelt condolences go out to her family. I'm very lucky to have met Bonny during quilting class. She was such a bright light in my life during our time in Hawaii. ADM Haney and Elizabeth please remember the good times I know we will Bonny even touched my parents and brothers hearts as well with the one day they spent with her. May God Bless you all and give you peace knowing that Bonny is with God and with you all forever .
My heartfelt condolences go out to her family. I'm very lucky to have met Bonny during quilting class. She was such a bright light in my life during our time in Hawaii. ADM Haney and Elizabeth please remember the good times I know we will Bonny even touched my parents and brothers hearts as well with the one day they spent with her. May God Bless you all and give you peace knowing that Bonny is with God and with you all forever .
A candle was lit by Maria Elena Bateman & Family
on October 27, 2017 2:03 PM
Message from Steve and Nancy Parode
October 27, 2017 10:13 AM
Dear Admiral Haney and family,
Please accept our deepest condolences as you gather to celebrate Bonny's life. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and with Bonny.
Sincerely,
Steve and Nancy
Please accept our deepest condolences as you gather to celebrate Bonny's life. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and with Bonny.
Sincerely,
Steve and Nancy
A Heavenly Light was sent on October 27, 2017
Sir, We are so very sorry to learn of the passing of your beloved wife. Miss Bonny was a beautiful person and we were blessed to have known her. Laura and I are keeping you and your family in our hearts and prayers. Heidi V. Brown and Laura DeSimone
A Lavender Remembrance was sent on October 27, 2017
Our deepest condolences to ADM Haney and his family. Much love and Aloha. We will truly miss Bonny!! Ken & Lisa Jordan
Message from Sue and Mark Banton
October 26, 2017 8:48 PM
We are sincerely sorry to hear about the passing of Bonny. We hadn't been in touch for many years, but Mark is friends with Thomas and Joseph on Facebook. Bonny will surely be missed.
Sue and Mark Banton
Sue and Mark Banton
A Divine Peace Bouquet was sent on October 26, 2017
Bonny's warm smile and welcoming personality will be sorely missed. We hope that fond memories will soon replace the void of sorrow created by her untimely loss. Although we can't be there, we send our love, heartfelt thoughts and prayers to the family. Love Keith and Carolyn Warren
A Divine Peace Bouquet was sent on October 26, 2017
Our Bonny will be greatly missed. We extend our deepest sympathy. thoughts and prayers. Love, Junior, Barb, Jill, Chad, and Stacy Tate family.
Message from Ryan McKinster
October 26, 2017 11:14 AM
I wish all of you swift passage through this dark time, and brighter days to follow soon.
Message from Mark & Marisa Manthey
October 26, 2017 11:05 AM
Cecil, Please accept my sincere condolences on the passing of your wife Bonny. You, your wife and family will be in my prayers. Take care Admiral. Your fellow Younger -Cruise mate, Mark
Message from Art & Shirley
October 26, 2017 8:21 AM
To Cecil and family,
Our hearts and our prayers go out to you. May you grieve deeply, but as those who do so with thanksgiving and hope in the risen Lord. Bonnie was and still is a gift of love. --Art & Shirley
Our hearts and our prayers go out to you. May you grieve deeply, but as those who do so with thanksgiving and hope in the risen Lord. Bonnie was and still is a gift of love. --Art & Shirley
Message from CDR Jay De Loach and family. A donation is made to Kommen
October 25, 2017 3:50 PM
My dear Cecil and family,
Although we met you and Bonnie as a young couple only once at a happier time of graduation and weddings, you both have always been held close in our hearts and thoughts through the years in your contact with Jay and Jodi. Together you have had a wonderful life and been a positive influence on all who have been fortunate enough to know you. Loving memories of your beautiful Bonnie will forever be yours and your family until that day when we will all be reunited with her and our Lord. Jay 1 and family
Although we met you and Bonnie as a young couple only once at a happier time of graduation and weddings, you both have always been held close in our hearts and thoughts through the years in your contact with Jay and Jodi. Together you have had a wonderful life and been a positive influence on all who have been fortunate enough to know you. Loving memories of your beautiful Bonnie will forever be yours and your family until that day when we will all be reunited with her and our Lord. Jay 1 and family
Message from Brenda Nagaoka
October 25, 2017 2:16 AM
Dear Admiral Haney and family, praying that your heart will be filled with the peace of god during this time and that you will know he loves you far more than any words can express. With caring sympathy and prayers. Love and aloha, Brenda Nagaoka
A candle was lit by Brenda Nagaoka
on October 25, 2017 2:07 AM
A Lavender Remembrance was sent on October 24, 2017
With our deepest sympathy for the Haney family. Bonny now rests in the loving embrace of God and knows the blessed peace that surpasses all understanding. Mary Ellen and John Harvey
Message from Fred and Kathy Byus
October 24, 2017 5:41 PM
Dear Cecil and Family,
Our hearts are broken for you and your family for the loss of dear Bonny. We have all of you in our prayers during this sad time. Yet, we are lifted up by our memories of Bonny and all of you as our neighbors on Ford Island all those years ago.
With Much Love, Fred and Kathy, Jane and Fred, Sara and John
Our hearts are broken for you and your family for the loss of dear Bonny. We have all of you in our prayers during this sad time. Yet, we are lifted up by our memories of Bonny and all of you as our neighbors on Ford Island all those years ago.
With Much Love, Fred and Kathy, Jane and Fred, Sara and John
A candle was lit by Fred and Kathy Byus
on October 24, 2017 5:37 PM
A candle was lit by Sally Nockold, Cindy & Gary Place
on October 24, 2017 2:37 PM
Message from Steve and Kim Trautman
October 24, 2017 1:50 PM
Cecil,
We are truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You have our deepest sympathy.
We are truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You have our deepest sympathy.
A Sweet and Warm Remembrance was sent on October 23, 2017
With our deepest sympathy and sincerest prayers and thoughts, we send our love and support. In Christ, William, Yuka and Ai Couret
Message from George & Thelma Billy
October 23, 2017 7:35 PM
Cecil, we are very sorry to hear of Bonny's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
George & Thelma Billy '78
George & Thelma Billy '78
Message from Cherie
October 23, 2017 5:36 PM
To Bonita's family,Ms Freda & Penny: I was saddened to hear of your loss. Sending healing prayers & wishing everyone God's peace. God Bless. Cherie Caliman/Crockwell (Ohio)
A Gracious Lavender Basket was sent on October 23, 2017
Bonny, You were always the most beautiful flower in the garden. Our life was truly blessed when we met you. As the most loved 5-star we know, don't stop looking after us. You still have a very important role in our lives. We send our love and condolences to the Haney family. With Love Stacey & Larry
A Beautiful Heart Bouquet was sent on October 23, 2017
Current and recent neighbors on The Row, Offutt AFB fondly remember Miss Bonny and respectfully send condolences to Admiral Cecil Haney and the Haney family. We mourn with you and pray for your comfort and peace, knowing Bonny finally is enjoying perfect peace and restoration. Blessings, The Row
A candle was lit by Jo-Marie, Michael, William and Grace Toepper, Ohana family.
on October 23, 2017 2:52 PM
Message from Jo-Marie Toepper
October 23, 2017 2:51 PM
Cecil, (Bonny), Thomas & Family, Elizabeth, and Joe (and other immediate family and her Ohana!),
I have struggled with what I want to say about my, military wife mentor, my friend, and my sister in the Lord. It grieves me that we all are meeting at this place of loss and I find that I tear up and smile, as I view the two pictures to my left (on the website.) We are all left to fill the gaps of our lives with her memory, her wisdom, and her grace. Our future steps will be stronger and more deliberate because of her. No matter who we were to her, she gave us her undivided attention, undivided love, and undivided support. Bonny had a way of showing you that she was listening and engaged and I personally saw that alive and well, when she was giving someone attention; she was fully present and fully compassionate. Bonny let us all know we were special to her. In my life, I met Bonny in Hawaii, as an older Mother who adopted two children, when we were introduced by our Pastor Mitch Gowen, she immediately considered my family and I, Ohana family. It is in that place that she became "Aunt" Bonny to my two children. As I could tell, her Ohana family is large! I personally am able to say I grew tremendously as a friend, a sister, a daughter, a mother and a wife because I had someone who dedicated her life to showing up for me (and others), showing the hope in Christ, hope in life, and hope in change, the hope in trials and adversity, and the hope in love. She was that person, that gave us herself, entirely, and I know from the last time she and I saw each other, as she struggled with symptoms, that she didn't want me to see her that way, but the gift she gave me was that of eye witnessing the extreme fight she had for her family, her Ohana, and her life! I didn't know that soon this terrible sickness would take her life. All I knew is that her life was there in that bed, fighting, smiling (a half smile), and even though she didn't want me to see it, the underlying remnants of a painful struggle to continue the role in her life, to everyone of us. She spoke of Timothy, "I just wanted to hold him." So many comments were inferred; but sitting with Bonny there in the hospital, was as if we both were still drinking a cup of tea, within the walls of her warm and loving home, where she hosted individuals and groups as family.
I became more of a bold, upfront advocate for myself, encouraged within my military life, and my immediate family. She challenged me, guided me, and sat quietly with me. We live in three different states together, and even when distance was the greater gap, she reached out to me, making me feel like I was the only one in that moment, all the while, connecting me to the bigger picture, the one she envisioned, for all people in her life and in the world.
Bonny connected people, she challenged people, and she loved with everything all the time. At times, we all saw her in the shadows of her life as well. This sickness does not define the Bonny I know or that you know. This was a symptom of her life and her health, but she was always of sound mind, a fighter, and a caregiver. It was in these last moments, I saw her care for herself. This was rare in my many many opportunities, but she did, she was caring for herself, and her immediate family. What a remarkable (mother-in-law), daughter and sister; that inner circle started her journey in life daily, and allowed her to reach out to everyone in her path. Again, I am tearing up, and smiling as I think of so many thoughts rushing through my mind. I love her so much. I love all of you, because we are connected always through her, we will take the momentum of her life, carry on the torch of strength and deliver it to another, just as Bonny taught to. Nothing is ever too late, we can and we will make her life live on, and mean something.
I refuse to say good-bye today. She saved my mind and my heart when I was so broken that I couldn't be, who I was called to be, and for that I will be ever grateful. Each day, I have personally remembered her in different ways. Each of us will go through the stages of grief and back and forth we will rock in the uncomfortable mixed feelings. Many of us will do this in the privacy of our own quiet moments. Bonny, thank you for saving my dignity, and my sanity! Thank you for those times I couldn't get up without you. Rest now, in your Savior's arms, be our angel and let us know you are waiting to see us again in that place where your hope began and your hope and spirit live today.
{Bonny}
It is in my deepest regret and with a breaking heart, that I let you go now to set you free. I will be in Heaven one day with you. I will find a way to be happy and carry on your uplifting spirit, and I will never ever be the same person, I was before, during and after this moment in time. I will be a better everything because of you. Mahalo my "mother", my sister. Your life meant something, it permeated the lives of every life you touched. Thank you for choosing me to be in your world with my family. I am eternally grateful and you will forever be missed. You live on in all of us, and you live on in me. Thank you for teaching me and loving me where my life was the most difficult to share. I miss you terribly. I won't forget your love nor will I forget your actions. Selah! Love you always, Jo-Marie Toepper
I have struggled with what I want to say about my, military wife mentor, my friend, and my sister in the Lord. It grieves me that we all are meeting at this place of loss and I find that I tear up and smile, as I view the two pictures to my left (on the website.) We are all left to fill the gaps of our lives with her memory, her wisdom, and her grace. Our future steps will be stronger and more deliberate because of her. No matter who we were to her, she gave us her undivided attention, undivided love, and undivided support. Bonny had a way of showing you that she was listening and engaged and I personally saw that alive and well, when she was giving someone attention; she was fully present and fully compassionate. Bonny let us all know we were special to her. In my life, I met Bonny in Hawaii, as an older Mother who adopted two children, when we were introduced by our Pastor Mitch Gowen, she immediately considered my family and I, Ohana family. It is in that place that she became "Aunt" Bonny to my two children. As I could tell, her Ohana family is large! I personally am able to say I grew tremendously as a friend, a sister, a daughter, a mother and a wife because I had someone who dedicated her life to showing up for me (and others), showing the hope in Christ, hope in life, and hope in change, the hope in trials and adversity, and the hope in love. She was that person, that gave us herself, entirely, and I know from the last time she and I saw each other, as she struggled with symptoms, that she didn't want me to see her that way, but the gift she gave me was that of eye witnessing the extreme fight she had for her family, her Ohana, and her life! I didn't know that soon this terrible sickness would take her life. All I knew is that her life was there in that bed, fighting, smiling (a half smile), and even though she didn't want me to see it, the underlying remnants of a painful struggle to continue the role in her life, to everyone of us. She spoke of Timothy, "I just wanted to hold him." So many comments were inferred; but sitting with Bonny there in the hospital, was as if we both were still drinking a cup of tea, within the walls of her warm and loving home, where she hosted individuals and groups as family.
I became more of a bold, upfront advocate for myself, encouraged within my military life, and my immediate family. She challenged me, guided me, and sat quietly with me. We live in three different states together, and even when distance was the greater gap, she reached out to me, making me feel like I was the only one in that moment, all the while, connecting me to the bigger picture, the one she envisioned, for all people in her life and in the world.
Bonny connected people, she challenged people, and she loved with everything all the time. At times, we all saw her in the shadows of her life as well. This sickness does not define the Bonny I know or that you know. This was a symptom of her life and her health, but she was always of sound mind, a fighter, and a caregiver. It was in these last moments, I saw her care for herself. This was rare in my many many opportunities, but she did, she was caring for herself, and her immediate family. What a remarkable (mother-in-law), daughter and sister; that inner circle started her journey in life daily, and allowed her to reach out to everyone in her path. Again, I am tearing up, and smiling as I think of so many thoughts rushing through my mind. I love her so much. I love all of you, because we are connected always through her, we will take the momentum of her life, carry on the torch of strength and deliver it to another, just as Bonny taught to. Nothing is ever too late, we can and we will make her life live on, and mean something.
I refuse to say good-bye today. She saved my mind and my heart when I was so broken that I couldn't be, who I was called to be, and for that I will be ever grateful. Each day, I have personally remembered her in different ways. Each of us will go through the stages of grief and back and forth we will rock in the uncomfortable mixed feelings. Many of us will do this in the privacy of our own quiet moments. Bonny, thank you for saving my dignity, and my sanity! Thank you for those times I couldn't get up without you. Rest now, in your Savior's arms, be our angel and let us know you are waiting to see us again in that place where your hope began and your hope and spirit live today.
{Bonny}
It is in my deepest regret and with a breaking heart, that I let you go now to set you free. I will be in Heaven one day with you. I will find a way to be happy and carry on your uplifting spirit, and I will never ever be the same person, I was before, during and after this moment in time. I will be a better everything because of you. Mahalo my "mother", my sister. Your life meant something, it permeated the lives of every life you touched. Thank you for choosing me to be in your world with my family. I am eternally grateful and you will forever be missed. You live on in all of us, and you live on in me. Thank you for teaching me and loving me where my life was the most difficult to share. I miss you terribly. I won't forget your love nor will I forget your actions. Selah! Love you always, Jo-Marie Toepper
A candle was lit by Maria Elena Bateman
on October 27, 2017 2:37 PM
Thank you for your post it is exactly how I feel about Bonny!
Thank you for your post it is exactly how I feel about Bonny!
Message from Kevin & Cindy Nichols
October 23, 2017 1:41 PM
Cecil,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you prepare to celebrate Bonny’s life of beauty and grace this coming weekend. We are privileged to be attending her Life Celebration service and extend our love and appreciation for having experienced her kind nature and compassion for others.
Kevin & Cindy Nichols
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you prepare to celebrate Bonny’s life of beauty and grace this coming weekend. We are privileged to be attending her Life Celebration service and extend our love and appreciation for having experienced her kind nature and compassion for others.
Kevin & Cindy Nichols
Message from Jim McClean, USNA 78
October 23, 2017 11:41 AM
Cecil,
I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your wife Bonny. I'm a cancer survivor myself, so I understand all the feelings and struggles that go along with that difficult battle. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not to your own understanding. Our prayers and sympathies are with you and your family.
Jim McClean, 78, First Company
I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your wife Bonny. I'm a cancer survivor myself, so I understand all the feelings and struggles that go along with that difficult battle. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not to your own understanding. Our prayers and sympathies are with you and your family.
Jim McClean, 78, First Company
A Dish Garden with fresh flowers was sent by Glenn and Margie Flanagan on October 23, 2017
Message from Joe and Terry Alvite
October 23, 2017 10:35 AM
Dear Cecil,
Our deepest condolences to you and your family. We remember the dinner you and Bonny had for my family in Pearl when you were COMPACFLT. She was the highlight of our vacation. Bonny was so kind, funny, and caring. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless you and your family.
Joe, Terry, and Ryan
Our deepest condolences to you and your family. We remember the dinner you and Bonny had for my family in Pearl when you were COMPACFLT. She was the highlight of our vacation. Bonny was so kind, funny, and caring. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God Bless you and your family.
Joe, Terry, and Ryan
Message from Sheila Rush Mayle family
October 23, 2017 9:07 AM
Condolences to the family of Bonny. She was a beautiful young woman, beautiful like her mother. Will keep family in Prayer.
A candle was lit by Janie Mines
on October 23, 2017 7:28 AM
Message from Janie Mines
October 23, 2017 7:26 AM
You are all in my prayers. May God bless and keep you.
Janie Mines '80
Janie Mines '80
A Pink Tribute Spray was sent on October 22, 2017
Praying for the Haney family at this time of loss. We are blessed to have known her. Tim Calnan & family
A Spathiphyllum was sent on October 22, 2017
Prayers for your Family Theresa Jackson and Family
Message from William Toepper
October 22, 2017 7:03 PM
To the Family and Loved Ones of Bonny Haney,
I am sorry for your loss. Aunt Bonny was among the kindest people I had ever met, she always would laugh with me, even with all the terrible jokes I made. You're blessed to have married such a wonderful woman. You will always be among my Ohana family. As long as we remember her as the kind, bright person she was, she is always with us. May you find solace in the understanding that you will meet again in heaven on the Last Day.
Love,
William Toepper
I am sorry for your loss. Aunt Bonny was among the kindest people I had ever met, she always would laugh with me, even with all the terrible jokes I made. You're blessed to have married such a wonderful woman. You will always be among my Ohana family. As long as we remember her as the kind, bright person she was, she is always with us. May you find solace in the understanding that you will meet again in heaven on the Last Day.
Love,
William Toepper
Message from Matt & Maria Leavitt
October 22, 2017 6:46 PM
Cecil and Family,
We are sorry to learn of your loss. We treasure fond memories of our time together; Maria especially remembers Bonny's kindness when she was new to the US, spoke little English an was trying to figure out the whole 'Navy Wife' challenge. Blessings to you and yours in this difficult time.
Matt
We are sorry to learn of your loss. We treasure fond memories of our time together; Maria especially remembers Bonny's kindness when she was new to the US, spoke little English an was trying to figure out the whole 'Navy Wife' challenge. Blessings to you and yours in this difficult time.
Matt
A candle was lit by Jan Warner and family
on October 22, 2017 5:30 PM
A candle was lit by Sandy 11
on October 22, 2017 2:49 PM
Message from Sandy Atkinson
October 22, 2017 2:47 PM
ADM Haney, Elizabeth, and family
I am deeply saddened by your loss, Bonny was a dear friend to me. I will her so much. Praying for the family in this time of sorrow. Please let me know if there is any thing I can do.
God bless you all
Sandy
I am deeply saddened by your loss, Bonny was a dear friend to me. I will her so much. Praying for the family in this time of sorrow. Please let me know if there is any thing I can do.
God bless you all
Sandy
A candle was lit by Vadm and Mrs Al Konetzni, USN (ret)
on October 22, 2017 12:43 PM
Cecil and Family,
Missy and I send our prayers and condolences during this very difficult time for you and your Family.
A Rabbi Chaplain once told me that in his religion a person is not gone as long as they are remembered. Bonnie will be remembered forever by us all!
I hope that your wonderful memories of a beautiful lady will provide you strength during these very difficult times.
With warmest regards,
Al and Missy Konetzni
Cecil and Family,
Missy and I send our prayers and condolences during this very difficult time for you and your Family.
A Rabbi Chaplain once told me that in his religion a person is not gone as long as they are remembered. Bonnie will be remembered forever by us all!
I hope that your wonderful memories of a beautiful lady will provide you strength during these very difficult times.
With warmest regards,
Al and Missy Konetzni
Message from Tory & Megan Lucas
October 22, 2017 11:02 AM
Cecil,
Megan and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. We are praying that you encounter God in the stillness of this moment as you seek refuge in His arms seeking peace and comfort.
Lifting you up,
Tory L. Lucas
Megan and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. We are praying that you encounter God in the stillness of this moment as you seek refuge in His arms seeking peace and comfort.
Lifting you up,
Tory L. Lucas
A candle was lit by Will and Jeanne Bundy
on October 22, 2017 10:15 AM
Cecil
Jeanne and I are deeply saddened by Bonny’s passing. We offer our most sincere condolences and prayers.
Peace be with you and your family,
Will and Jeanne
Cecil
Jeanne and I are deeply saddened by Bonny’s passing. We offer our most sincere condolences and prayers.
Peace be with you and your family,
Will and Jeanne
A candle was lit by Jeanne and Will Bundy
on October 22, 2017 7:38 AM
A Grandma's Garden Basket was sent on October 21, 2017
Beloved Bonny, Holding your family close in my thoughts and prayers. Always, Janice Steinbach
Message from Robert and Thelma Cook & Family
October 21, 2017 2:52 PM
Aunt Freda and Family,
We send our deepest condolences, sympathy and prayers to you for your loss. We love you and pray for your comfort.
Love Bobby, Thelma & Girls
We send our deepest condolences, sympathy and prayers to you for your loss. We love you and pray for your comfort.
Love Bobby, Thelma & Girls
Message from Cliff Atwood
October 21, 2017 8:04 AM
Cecil and family, I am so very sorry for your loss.
A candle was lit by Patrick and Felicia Alston
on October 20, 2017 10:18 PM
A candle was lit by Diane ,, Bruce and Kale Meyer
on October 20, 2017 8:58 PM
A Rays of Light Spray was sent on October 20, 2017
Our love to Admiral Haney and Elizabeth from the Belt family (CAPT Stuart Belt and Tomoko)
A candle was lit by Jeffery & Maureen Steinbach
on October 20, 2017 7:26 PM
A Monet's Garden Table Basket was sent on October 20, 2017
May God hold you in His loving arms as Bonny is laid to rest! She was a wonderful gift from our loving Father and was a beautiful memory to her family! Our thoughts and Love, Kathleen and Michael Moseley in Phoenix Arizona
A candle was lit by Kathleen &Michael Moseley of Arizona
on October 20, 2017 6:15 PM
Message from Kathleen and Michael Moseley of Arizona; moseleyhome123@aol.com
October 20, 2017 6:13 PM
May God hold you in His loving arms as Bonny is laid to rest!
Dear Cecil, Elizabeth, Thomas and Joseph, We are praying for your strength in this time of sorrow! If there is anything that this household can do please let us know. I am always here for you in your good times as in the tragedies. As I look at her smile I am reminded of the hours we spent together as long lost friends talking about old time and times to come. It reminds me how at easy she was at speaking and being a true sister!
Sendin our love,
Kathleen and Michael Moseley
Dear Cecil, Elizabeth, Thomas and Joseph, We are praying for your strength in this time of sorrow! If there is anything that this household can do please let us know. I am always here for you in your good times as in the tragedies. As I look at her smile I am reminded of the hours we spent together as long lost friends talking about old time and times to come. It reminds me how at easy she was at speaking and being a true sister!
Sendin our love,
Kathleen and Michael Moseley
A candle was lit by Leo & Janet Florick
on October 20, 2017 5:28 PM
Cecil,
Please accept our heartfelt thoughts and prayers for Bonny, you, and your family. I hope you can take some measure of comfort when I sincerely say there was always a special twinkle in your eyes whenever you spoke about Bonny. The love you have for each other is known near and far. May God bless Bonny. She will always be at your side.
Leo & Janet Florick
Cecil,
Please accept our heartfelt thoughts and prayers for Bonny, you, and your family. I hope you can take some measure of comfort when I sincerely say there was always a special twinkle in your eyes whenever you spoke about Bonny. The love you have for each other is known near and far. May God bless Bonny. She will always be at your side.
Leo & Janet Florick
A candle was lit by Refreshing Lives Church, New Bern, NC
on October 20, 2017 2:14 PM
Message from Refreshing Lives Church, New Bern, NC
October 20, 2017 2:13 PM
We offer our condolences to the family of Mrs. Bonita Haney. It is our prayer that you will find peace and comfort in God's Word during this time and forever more.
Bishop Ronald & Pastor Angela Scott, and Refreshing Lives Church
Bishop Ronald & Pastor Angela Scott, and Refreshing Lives Church
A candle was lit by Susan Q. Kennedy
on October 20, 2017 2:06 PM
Dear Cecil, Thomas, Elizabeth & Joe,
Words cannot express the shock and loss of Bonny. She was truly a special person. Bonny always brought joy and laughter each and every time I saw her. I pray that God will grant you His peace and hold you and the family in the palm of His hand.
Love to you all,
Susan
Dear Cecil, Thomas, Elizabeth & Joe,
Words cannot express the shock and loss of Bonny. She was truly a special person. Bonny always brought joy and laughter each and every time I saw her. I pray that God will grant you His peace and hold you and the family in the palm of His hand.
Love to you all,
Susan
Message from John Ehlers
October 20, 2017 1:47 PM
Cecil,
I was so sorry to learn of your loss. Please accept the sincere condolences of an old Classmate.
I was so sorry to learn of your loss. Please accept the sincere condolences of an old Classmate.
An Expression of sympathy. was sent on October 20, 2017
Remembering Bonny warms our heart of the love she shared Love, Waymond and Helen Joynes
Message from Waymond and Helen Joynes
October 20, 2017 12:36 PM
Its hard to fathom this loss of such a wonderful woman with a beautiful smile and an even more beautiful heart filled with Gods love that she shared with all she met. We will miss her so much and our prayers for the whole family in this time of sorrow. God bless you all.
Message from Joe and Meg Leidig
October 20, 2017 12:05 PM
Cecil, Please accept our deepest condolences. We have the fondest memories of the times we shared with you and Bonny over the years. You and your family are in our prayers and thoughts. God Bless. Joe and Meg
A candle was lit by Brenda Day
on October 20, 2017 11:59 AM
Message from Jon and Barbara Sears
October 20, 2017 11:57 AM
Cecil, please accept our condolences for Bonny. She was a special person and we sorry for your loss.
Message from Dewain Forbis
October 20, 2017 11:50 AM
Cecil and Haney family, my deepest sympathy and condolences on your loss! May the Lord's light shine down on you in this time of need. Remember that you still have each other, her greatest legacy!
Message from Floyd Meadows
October 20, 2017 11:44 AM
Cecil,
I am so sorry for your loss. May God grant you comfort during this time.
Floyd Meadows '78'
I am so sorry for your loss. May God grant you comfort during this time.
Floyd Meadows '78'
Message from Chris and Terri Slack
October 20, 2017 11:21 AM
Cecil, our condolences to you and your family. We always remember fondly, our tight knit group as we commenced our journey in the nuclear Navy. Best wishes as you commence a new journey to grieve (and remember) your wife, best friend and no doubt sage cousel of so many years. Eternal father, strong to save....
Message from Rob and Barbara Madden
October 20, 2017 10:04 AM
Admiral Haney and Family - We are so sad to hear the news of Bonny's passing. We wish you God's peace and comfort during this time. "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted ,,," Matthew 5:4
Message from Sandra K Prescott
October 20, 2017 8:47 AM
Cecil, Please know that my husband and I are thinking of you and your family as you search for a way to deal with the loss of your dear wife and best friend, Bonny. We just wanted to send a note to let you know we both thought Bonny was a very special person. She always made us feel welcome at your home and she was so compassionate. We saw many times how caring she was toward everyone she met. We remember fondly the year we were visiting our daughter and son in law (Jo-Marie & Michael Toepper) and Bonny, and you did not hesitate to invite us into your home for Thanksgiving dinner. It was such a wonderful day. There were the many other visits we had together. She treated our grandchildren William and Grace as if they were family. You are such a wonderful man, too. The way you looked after our daughter and her family so warmly will always be treasured. May the good lord bless and keep you safe and may you find peace and comfort to guide you through the days ahead. With love, Sandra and Bill Prescott. MAINE
Message from Z-Man
October 20, 2017 8:25 AM
Felicia and I lost a great friend and more in Ms. Bonnie! She will always be in our heart as will the family.
A Grandma's Garden Basket was sent on October 20, 2017
Our deepest condolence to you at this time of sorrow. Ms. Bonny is in God's care now and what better care could we ever ask for her We pray for your comfort in the days ahead. May God bless you and keep you in His tender care and love. Mil, Nan, Chris, Candice, and Catherine Yi
A candle was lit by Anthony "Tony" Bruce
on October 20, 2017 3:28 AM
Message from Daryl and Donna Caudle
October 20, 2017 3:11 AM
Words cannot adequately express the sadness that we feel for Admiral Haney and his entire family. Donna and I were privileged to see the strength of the Haney family as Bonny fought her cancer during our time at US STRATEGIC Command where ADM Haney's leadership and strength as husband, father, and Commander never faltered. It was obvious to all that Bonny was Cecil's life, best friend, and a much better dancer. She always lit up the room. We will truly miss her. The entire Haney family is and will remain in our thoughts and prayers.
A candle was lit by Michael and Julie Sears
on October 19, 2017 10:21 PM
Message from Bill and Majella Stevenson
October 19, 2017 10:15 PM
Majella and I send our warmest prayers to ADM Haney and family. Your wife was an awesome lady and we will miss her dearly.
A candle was lit by Charles and Michelle McNear
on October 19, 2017 8:15 PM
A candle was lit by Shermaine and Robert Spratt
on October 19, 2017 7:59 PM
Message from Michael Sears
October 19, 2017 7:15 PM
We are deeply saddened by the news of your loss. Julie and I pray that God will grant you strength. Our most sincere condolences.
Michael and Julie Sears
USNA 1978
Michael and Julie Sears
USNA 1978
A candle was lit by Glen Woods
on October 19, 2017 3:53 PM
Message from Glen Woods
October 19, 2017 3:52 PM
Cecil,
Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss of Bonny. I pray that God will send you and your family his Holy Spirit offering His peace and comfort. On behalf of all your classmates we stand in silent hope for when you are joined again. God bless you...
Glen Woods
President, USNA Class of 1978
Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss of Bonny. I pray that God will send you and your family his Holy Spirit offering His peace and comfort. On behalf of all your classmates we stand in silent hope for when you are joined again. God bless you...
Glen Woods
President, USNA Class of 1978
Message from Betty Ashby Dexter
October 19, 2017 3:40 PM
To Freda and family. So sorry for your loss. You have my deepest and sincere sympathy.
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